If you're the parent of a highly sensitive child, ineffective behaviors like refusal, shut down, and meltdowns can feel like your daily battleground.

You worry you'll be seen as "those parents" whose child is always having a fit.

You feel guilty that your other kids get less attention because your sensitive child takes all the energy.

And secretly, you may even resent your child at times for hijacking your family's peace and joy.

I want you to know, it's not your fault. And you're not alone in this struggle.

Traditional parenting approaches and discipline simply don't work for highly sensitive children. Their brains are wired differently.

But the good news is, you can eliminate those daily battles and bring more calm to your home.

Here are 3 simple shifts you can make starting today:

Create a Meltdown Prevention Plan

Look for patterns and triggers in your child's environment that lead to meltdowns. Eliminating some of these triggers can stop many meltdo...

As a parent of a highly sensitive child, you're already blazing your own trail.

You've rejected the old, harsh discipline methods that you grew up with. 

Instead, you're committed to raising an emotionally resilient child using positive parenting strategies.

But when Grandma and Grandpa see you comforting your child through a meltdown instead of sending them to their room, the disapproving looks and unsolicited advice can make you second guess yourself.

How do you stay firm in your nontraditional parenting style when facing criticism from the older generation?

Here are 3 key principles to keep in mind:

👉 Lead with your "why" 👈

Explain to your parents or in-laws the research and reasons behind your gentle parenting approach. Help them see that you're not being "soft", but rather intentional in raising an emotionally healthy child.

👉 Find common ground in shared values 👈

Emphasize that you share the same end goal: raising a resilient, capable adult. Yo...

When you have a highly sensitive child, it can feel like you're constantly putting out fires.

The daily meltdowns, the refusal to get dressed for school, the extreme reactions to seemingly small things...

It's exhausting. And often, in the chaos, it's easy to overlook one surprising trigger - visual clutter.

You see, for sensitive children, excess visual stimuli can feel as overwhelming as a room full of people shouting.

Their brains process information deeply, noticing every detail in the environment.

So while a pile of unsorted mail on the kitchen counter may barely register for you, for your sensitive child, it can be a loud, constant distraction that frays their nerves.

This doesn't mean you need to become a die-hard minimalist overnight.

But it does mean that reducing visual clutter is one small change that can make a big impact in lowering your child's stress levels.

Watch this week’s podcast to learn more about what to do about it.

Here are a few simple ways to get star...

Imagine this...

It's the day after the fall festivities. Your sensitive child's treat bag is overflowing with candy.

They've already had several meltdowns begging for "just one more piece". You've said no multiple times, but the badgering won't stop.

You're at your wits end, ready to just lock up the candy stash and be done with it.

But you wonder, is that really the best approach? Will restrictions just make candy even more enticing and lead to sneaking treats later?

I get it. Food battles with a highly sensitive child can feel like an impossible situation.

Traditional approaches like the "one treat a day" rule or hiding the candy often backfire into more obsession, not less.

So what's a weary parent to do?

Here are 3 key principles to keep in mind:

Restriction Leads to Fixation

The more you restrict access to a desired food, the more your child will fixate on it. It becomes like a forbidden fruit. Instead, try to neutralize candy as just another f...

Imagine your child struggling to walk, falling down constantly at home, but miraculously having perfect coordination in public.

You wouldn't assume they were just stumbling for attention, right? 

You'd know they genuinely needed help building that physical skill.

Well, the same is true for emotional skills like regulation and distress tolerance.

Meltdown behaviors at home (hitting, kicking, screaming, refusal, shutting down) are a sign of lagging abilities, not a manipulative bid for attention.

Just because they can "hold it together" at school doesn't mean the struggle isn't real. 

It just means home is a space to let it all out…. (another post for a different day– it’s not because they feel “safe” either.)

As parents, our job is to guide them from this emotional crawling stage to confident walking (and eventually running!) with a calm, regulated nervous system.

But here's the thing... You can't teach what you haven't mastered yourself.

If you're ge...

I want to share a powerful story about one of our clients, a mom of two boys one of which was struggling with 2-3 meltdowns per day.

She confided in us that she had been suffering in silence for months, too embarrassed to reach out for help because the meltdowns only happened at home.

She thought since her kids held it together in public, it meant they were doing better than if they melted down in front of others.

But here's the truth: Meltdowns are meltdowns, regardless of where they happen. And parental isolation due to shame is a hidden symptom of the meltdown cycle.

In her case, there were carpool arguments clouding friendships that she chalked up to her boys just needing better social skills… not realizing the two issues were connected.

But once she stopped walking on eggshells and started requiring her children to manage their emotions with the tools we taught her, everything changed.

He went from multiple meltdowns per day to ZERO. And they've kept that u...

Are you unknowingly making THIS critical mistake in your parenting that could be destroying your marriage?

Many well-meaning parents who practice attachment-focused parenting fall into the trap of coddling their sensitive child.

They save their child from ever experiencing negative emotions.

They always put their child's needs above their own and their spouse's.

They avoid setting any limits, for fear of upsetting their sensitive child.

The result? A co-dependent relationship forms between parent and child...

And the marriage starts to crumble under the strain.

If you're noticing more tension and less connection in your marriage since becoming parents to a sensitive child...

This could be the root cause that no one is talking about.

I know you love your child deeply and want to raise them with a secure attachment.

But it doesn't have to come at the cost of your marriage or your own emotional well-being.

There is a way to be a responsive, attu...

As a parent of a sensitive child, you know the heartache of watching them meltdown over seemingly small bits of constructive feedback.

It's painful to see your kid react so strongly, and not know how to help them calmly receive guidance to grow.

Here's what most parenting experts won't tell you:

Your own ability to take feedback is directly tied to your sensitive child's ability to do the same.

Let me explain.

When you receive constructive feedback yourself, what's your own internal self-talk?

Do you default to "Suck it up, this is no big deal" or "See? You really do just suck at this"?

If so, you're accidentally invalidating the very real emotional pain that comes with personal growth - for both you and your child.

You see, sensitive children are deeply attuned to their parents' every micro-expression and unstated belief.

So when you can't compassionately accept your own growth feedback, they subconsciously learn that it's not safe for them to vulne...

A little tooth sensitivity is easy to brush off. "It's not a big deal," you think.

But beneath the surface, decay is silently eating away at the root.

By the time you're wincing in pain with every bite, that little cavity is now a big, expensive root canal.

Can you imagine parenting like that? Of course you would never neglect your kid’s tooth pain.

Quick question– why are you ignoring your own exhaustion as a parent, treating it like a neglected toothache?

What does this have to do with teaching your child to take responsibility for their actions?

Your sensitive child's daily meltdowns are just like emotional cavities, eroding their resilience at the root.

Fill them now before you're facing an emotional extraction that didn't have to happen.

Here are 3 crucial shifts to help your child take responsibility and end the meltdown cycle for good:

Emphasize their genuine problem-solving abilities.

Sensitive kids are incredibly creative problem-solvers when calm. H...

Let's be real - if your sensitive child is having daily meltdowns, it's a glaring sign they haven't yet developed a resourceful identity.

Resourcefulness is non-negotiable for your child's lifelong success and happiness. It's the key to resilience.

If your child can't creatively solve problems or stay present when upset, they're stuck in the meltdown cycle. 

And that cycle won't end on its own.

When they refuse options and meltdown instead of problem-solving, they're telling you they need help rewiring their brain for resilience.

That's exactly what we do in our latest parent training.

We'll show you exactly what’s getting in the way when you try to help your child:

• Stay present and process big feelings without outbursts 
• Creatively solve problems instead of melting down
• Feel truly heard and understood by you
• Open up without fear or shame
• Strengthen their resourceful identity for life

This training is not just another behavior hack. It's lasting ...